The Enabling Society Has Hit a New Low
Vivaldi, the great Venetian composer, known as the "Red Priest," did most of his work at the Ospedale della Pietà , an orphanage for poor and illegitimate children.
Now, centuries later, almost every day and night, you can hear a local group play Vivaldi's "Four Seasons" there.
If you walk around the side of the beautiful church facade, you can still find the opening in the wall where women who knew or feared that they could not care for their babies could leave the infant to be cared for.
This provision of a safe haven for babies in such dire circumstances has been around in most countries in the world since practically forever.
Now, Vancouver will be the first city in Canada to revive this very practical but troubling tradition.
St. Paul's Hospital has created a "baby drop off."
A bassinet near the ER will be alarmed so that staff will be immediately alerted if someone has left a baby there.
The mother will not be subject to arrest.
This is in many ways a reasonable response to an ugly reality.
But it is at the same time deeply disturbing.
First, I found myself shuddering as I listened to some young enthusiastic policeman saying repeatedly on the radio yesterday that this initiative would make things "easier" for the woman in trouble.
Is that our job?
To make things "easier" for people to not care for their own babies?
Second and finally...
I am sitting here today at the age of 67 writing this piece because that many years ago, my mother made a courageous choice and lived up to its challenges.
My mother chose to be a single parent and to raise her child.
She did this in 1942 and in the milieu of an orthodox Old World Jewish family.
She passed on to me, among other things, life, food and shelter, endless curiosity, humour, and a deep sense of social justice.
Not much was "easier" for her.
But here we are, having this conversation.
Maybe as we continue on this path of accommodation, we will soon be providing a place to drop off your baby and right there a place to safely inject some free heroin.